Patience has been one of my life long lessons especially as it pertained to my personal love story. Like all relationships, each of my relationships were experiences that provided the opportunity to learn more about myself, practice various skills (communication, conflict resolution, loving actively, forgiveness, compassion, etc.) and identify what works and does not work for me as it pertained to qualities and characteristics of myself and others. All of these experiences have enabled me to become very clear on the type of experiences I desire in life and through years of investing in and cultivating a relationship with myself, I know what constricts and expands my highest good in life, love and relationships (romantic, friendship, business, family, etc.). Also, what I know for certain is patience is needed for the manifestation of your dreams/best life. If you are not patient you run the risk of ruining or sabotaging the outcome.
For example, there are certain puffed pastries that require the oven door to remain closed until the dish has completed cooking and once done it must remain in the oven and cool slowly inside, because removing it from 400F to room temperature is too much of a shock. Individuals must wait 48 hours after a scuba dive before flying. Health issues are increased when babies are born before the 9 month incubation period. X amount of time is required to obtain your degree, certifications, etc. and if one leaves prior to this time point (lack of patience) the outcome is changed significantly (no degree).
Patience removes fear and all of its cronies (anxiety, panic, sadness, etc.) resulting in clarity and peace. When your vision is clear you are able to see things accurately and make informed decisions. You no longer make compromises on matters that are fundamental to you. You no longer settle for mediocrity on any level, especially in your romantic relationships. You will not partner out of loneliness or accept mistreatment (on any level). Instead you trust the process, yourself, love and the journey and KNOW you will KNOW when and with whom.
Love Never Forgets Its Way Home…never. Be patient. Trust the process. Get grounded. Nurture your heart space. Strengthen your discernment and intuition. The seeds (vision/drams) planted in your heart are meant for your love garden, cultivate the land and plant your seeds then continue on your journey. Do not dig the seeds up, they are establishing their root system. Trust. – Misha N. Granado