It’s okay and healthy to feel excited about someone or something; to allow your heart to fully expand at the possibility of an experience your heart desires to have. It’s okay to share this excitement with your loved ones.
It’s okay to be vulnerable, transparent, believe, trust and be open to love.
It’s okay to want to have a beautiful, passionate, fun, exciting, healthy, life-giving, emotionally mature, safe love experience absent of the 3Cs, filled with the 3Rs.
It’s also okay to feel disappointed when it does not come to fruition or dissolves before your heart is ready to part.
Sometimes we may feel an element of shame and/or embarrassment when a relationship either does not manifest or ends. We may dread having to face those very same people we shared our excitement with and their desire to know why.
Disappointment may result in feeling foolish for being excited, hopeful and we may erroneously believe moving forward we should temper our excitement or not to allow ourselves to get excited at all. We may conclude that it is not emotionally safe to dream, hope, trust and believe the vision and promise God placed in our hearts and spirit. We may incorrectly believe we are not good enough or worthy because if we were, X would have happened or Y would not have ended.
It’s okay to allow yourself to FULLY feel the disappointment. Actually, it is the healthiest way to process. Allow it to flow through you. Do not stuff it.
- Go outside without any gadgets.
- Place your bare toes in the grass.
- Close your eyes.
- Wiggle your toes.
- Open your arms.
- Inhale deeply.
- Exhale slowly.
You are alive. You are here. You are a gift.
Do you realize how many stars had to align to create you?
Can you comprehend the miracle that is you?
Can you grasp that ‘THIS’ disappointment/setback is merely ‘self-correcting’ re-calibrating to realign you with your purpose.
There is ABSOLUTELY nothing out of the reach of God/Love…NOTHING! There is NOTHING anyone can do and there is NO ONE on this plane (or any other) that serves as a ‘gate keeper’ to the love that has been allocated to you.
Listen to me love. Can you hear me dear heart? Yes, you…the one who feels as it there is no way you can get pass ‘THIS.’ You are in a body, on a round sphere suspended in the galaxy near the sun and darkness simultaneously. Believe me…’THIS’ cannot compare to the infinite miracles that is life, love and God.
It’s okay to feel disappointed.
It is better to release, trust and KNOW that who and what is for you is for you and EVERYTHING and EVERYONE that isn’t will make their exit in some of the most creative ways. Do not resist. Allow.