A man who is grounded and has a clear vision for his life knows the qualities and characteristics in a woman that will compliment him and the same is true for a woman.
These individuals have the ability to see each other in totality and
...are keenly aware that the whole is always greater than any ‘piece.’
Sure, another individual may have more or less of something than your significant other but their pieces cannot compare or replace the whole, not if you are clear on your vision and purpose.
In order to recognize your love, you must be clear and grounded in the grandness of you. We can experience happiness with many people, and even a great life; but your best life, now that is something different. © - Misha N. Granado