Men put in effort for everything of interest to them. They spend countless hours researching players, stats, etc. in attempts to create the best fantasy teams. Some know the entire history of sports, players, technology, sneakers, music, whiskey, cigars, etc. Countless research hours are spent organizing and planning guy trips, marijuana strands, catching up on House of Cards or other Netflix programs. However, some men do not want to invest any effort into getting to know a woman, her likes, her dreams, interests, intellect, humor, passions, etc. but continue to say they want a ‘good woman’ a healthy relationship, love and marriage. These men do not engage in conversations with a woman to ascertain if there is a connection other than the physical attraction he feels towards her. Instead he uses 140 characters to make sexual innuendos via text or some other form of technology.
Women, if he is not putting in any effort to pursue (not chase) you, he is not interested.
He is not too busy.
He is not intimidated.
He does not have mama issues.
If a man is truly interested in you, you will know. You will not need to guess. He will make a significant effort. He will honor his word and follow up. He will plan proper dates because he wants to get to know you. Yes, he is physically attracted to you, but he also knows you are more than your beauty, he is intrigued and wants to know more.
Women, expect more. Raise your standards. You are more than your beauty and hip-waist ratio.
You deserve proper dates.
You deserve a gentleman.
Become clear on what you desire.
If it is a monogamous, committed, healthy relationship filled with love, then stop settling for open, casual, non-committed, unhealthy relationships filled with drama.
Sex is easy, actually it is quite basic, all animals do it. You are of higher intelligence and it is time to act accordingly.
Stop chasing these men.
Stop engaging in committed relationship type of behavior without a commitment.
Stop allowing men to enter your sacred temple (body) without a monogamous commitment (unless this is all you want).
It is time to begin to value your internal (vagina, mind, spirit) just as much or more than your external (hair, dress size, etc.). If you do not know his friends, family, invited for public day dates, if he does not know or care to know your family, friends, declines your invites but is always available for sex, he is not the guy for you (if you desire something more than sex).
Sex will not keep a man nor are monogamous, committed, healthy relationships filled with love built on a foundation of sex, regardless of the number of sexual tricks you turn or the intensity of the orgasm he has with you. If you don’t believe me, how many marriage proposal resulted from the sex you had with the men from your past? If you want something different, do something different. – Misha N. Granado