Think About it Tuesdays
May you trust yourself enough to allow your heart to open fully to love someone romantically again. This is the next true adventure.
At Love Grows we speak about and teach a great deal on understanding your journey, the ebb and flow of life and how absolutely everyone and every experience on your path can be used for your greatest good and propel you to your next space. This does not happen magically nor does it happen with justthe passing of time. Instead, action is required on your part. A mental shift must occur, where you are willing to begin to view your life and everything that happens differently, from a place of openness and intrigue. To always inquire:
What is the #lesson here for me to learn?
How did I contribute to this outcome?
What were my other choices?
Have I made this same mistake previously? If so, what am I missing? Why am I repeating the same behavior/thoughts that result in ‘this?’
What am I willing to do differently in order to experience a different, more ideal outcome?
There are even lessons to be found in your most heartbreaking experiences, actually these are where your master lessons are usually located and if you master these lessons the wisdom you gain will shift your perspective. Once you do the work to heal from the heartache, your vision improves and you begin to gain clarity in ‘heart vision’ the ability to see others and the world from this perspective. You will know when you gained wisdom, because your behavior and words will align with love.
We have all experienced heartbreak sometime along our respective journeys. Perhaps your heartbreak is the result of:
- the death of a spouse
- end of a relationship
- unrequited love
- absent parent, etc.
Take time to heal this loss, but do not allow this loss to be the end of your relationship and belief in love. Love is massive, it is abundant, it is sustainable and renewable and if you just give love a chance to heal your wounds and show up in your life you will be amazed at the life you and love can co-create. Love is one of the best adventures.
Love and healthy relationships is not only my business, it is my passion, life purpose and my love. We are now accepting new clients. Allow us to accompany you on your journey to improve your relationships (including your relationship with self) and/or heal your heart. – Misha N. Granado, MPH, MS